Getting Your Affairs in Order: The Ultimate Checklist
A practical, step-by-step guide to organizing your finances, documents, and wishes - giving you and your family peace of mind.
Key Takeaways
- 1Start with legal documents: will, POA, healthcare directive
- 2Create comprehensive account inventory for family
- 3Review and update all beneficiary designations
- 4Secure digital life: passwords, accounts, subscriptions
- 5Discuss wishes with family before they need to know
- 6Keep documents accessible but secure
- 7Update everything annually or after major life changes
Legal Documents Checklist
These documents ensure your wishes are followed and your family is protected. Without them, courts decide what happens to your assets.
- ☐ **Will**: Directs asset distribution, names executor, names guardians for minor children
- ☐ **Revocable Living Trust**: Avoids probate, provides privacy (optional but recommended)
- ☐ **Financial Power of Attorney**: Names someone to manage money if you're incapacitated
- ☐ **Healthcare Power of Attorney**: Names someone to make medical decisions
- ☐ **Living Will/Advance Directive**: Documents end-of-life care preferences
- ☐ **HIPAA Authorization**: Allows family to access medical records
- ☐ **Letter of Intent**: Non-legal wishes for funeral, personal items (supplement to will)
Where to Store
Keep originals in fireproof safe or safe deposit box. Give copies to executor, healthcare agent, and attorney. Document the location.
Financial Account Inventory
Create a master list of all financial accounts. Your family shouldn't have to search through mail for months to find your accounts.
| Account Type | Information to Record |
|---|---|
| Bank accounts | Bank name, account type, account number, online access |
| Retirement accounts | 401(k), IRA, pension - custodian, account number, advisor |
| Brokerage accounts | Firm, account number, advisor contact |
| Real estate | Property addresses, deed location, mortgage info |
| Vehicles | Title locations, loan info |
| Business interests | Partnership agreements, ownership % |
| Debts/Loans | Creditor, account number, balance |
| Safe deposit box | Bank location, box number, key location |
Insurance Policies Checklist
Insurance provides for your family and covers final expenses. Make sure policies are current and beneficiaries are correct.
- ☐ **Life insurance**: Policy numbers, company, beneficiaries, agent contact
- ☐ **Health insurance**: ID numbers, coverage details
- ☐ **Long-term care insurance**: Policy details, when it activates
- ☐ **Auto/Home insurance**: Policy info for ongoing coverage
- ☐ **Medicare/Medigap**: Plan details for surviving spouse
- ☐ **Burial/Final expense insurance**: If separate from life insurance
Beneficiary Check
Review life insurance beneficiaries annually. A policy listing an ex-spouse pays to them regardless of your will.
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Digital Life Organization
Our increasingly digital lives mean important accounts, memories, and even money can be lost forever without proper documentation.
- ☐ **Password manager**: Use one and share master access with trusted person
- ☐ **Email accounts**: Main email often unlocks everything else
- ☐ **Social media**: Document accounts, consider legacy contacts (Facebook, etc.)
- ☐ **Subscriptions**: List recurring charges that should be cancelled
- ☐ **Cloud storage**: Photos, documents stored online
- ☐ **Cryptocurrency**: Wallet access, recovery phrases (critical!)
- ☐ **Online banking**: Access credentials
Legacy Contact Features
Many platforms (Apple, Google, Facebook) let you designate a legacy contact who gains access after death. Set these up now.
Personal Property & Special Wishes
Beyond financial assets, document wishes for personal items and final arrangements.
- ☐ **Personal property list**: Who should receive specific items (jewelry, heirlooms)
- ☐ **Funeral preferences**: Burial vs cremation, service type, location
- ☐ **Organ donation**: Document wishes, tell family
- ☐ **Obituary notes**: Key facts, photo preference
- ☐ **Pets**: Who will care for them, funds allocated
- ☐ **Charitable wishes**: Organizations to notify, final donations
Having the Conversation
The best-organized plan fails if nobody knows about it. Take these steps to ensure your family is prepared.
- 1Schedule a family meeting specifically for this topic
- 2Share location of all documents and keys
- 3Introduce family to attorney, financial advisor, accountant
- 4Explain reasoning behind major decisions
- 5Give executor a copy of this completed checklist
- 6Set recurring reminder to review annually together
Don't Forget Your Precious Metals
If you own physical gold, silver, or have a Gold IRA, additional documentation is essential. These assets require special handling for inheritance.
- Inventory all precious metals with type, weight, and purity
- Document Gold IRA custodian and beneficiary designations
- Specify location of home-stored metals securely
- Include dealer relationship for family reference
- Consider having valuable pieces appraised
- Explain to heirs why you hold gold and long-term strategy
Frequently Asked Questions
1At what age should I start getting my affairs in order?
Every adult should have basic documents (will, POA, healthcare directive) regardless of age. Major life events (marriage, children, home purchase) make comprehensive planning essential. By 50, detailed planning should be in place.
2Do I need a lawyer or can I do this myself?
Simple situations can use online services for basic documents. However, professional help is worthwhile for significant assets, complex families, or business ownership. At minimum, consult an attorney before signing anything.
3How often should I update this checklist?
Annually at minimum. Update immediately after: marriage, divorce, birth/death, significant asset changes, moving to a new state, or changes in health.
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